Menstrual rituals once felt foreign to me—because I had no idea my sacred blood was a portal. I didn’t know it carried wisdom, power, and memory. For most of my life, I was disconnected from my body, unaware of the magic that lived in me.

Like many modern women, I lived in a state of constant comparison and performance. I treated my body like a project—something to be shaped, toned, and polished to meet a standard I never created. I demanded respect from others, but if I’m honest, I wasn’t giving that same reverence to myself. Especially not to my cycle.

I saw my period as dirty, inconvenient. I wanted to skip it, hide it, ignore it. And without realizing it, I had internalized what culture had taught me: that my blood was something to be ashamed of.

That all changed when I had my spiritual awakening.

It didn’t happen overnight. In 2012, I had a spontaneous kundalini awakening that cracked something open in me. But it wasn’t until years later, in 2017, that I met her—Shakti. The embodiment of feminine energy in Tantra. And it was through her, through the sacred teachings of Tantra, that I began to understand the immense power within the womb and the sacredness of menstrual blood.

Sacred Blood. Remembering the Ancient Ways

Long before pads and shame, there was reverence. In ancient times, a woman’s blood was considered sacred. It was an offering. A sign of her connection to the divine.

The menstrual cycle was not seen as an inconvenience, but as a portal of power. The egg released each month was a gift from the Goddess. And if that egg wasn’t fertilized, the blood it carried still held creative energy—the same energy that builds life, sustains it, and returns it to the Earth.

Women gathered in Red Tents, not to hide away, but to bleed together, dream together, and call in visions. Menstruation was a time of deep intuition and connection. The blood was used in rituals, poured back into the Earth, offered to altars, or used in ceremonies for healing, fertility, and manifestation. It was the only blood that flowed not from violence or harm, but from the sacred rhythm of creation itself—offered freely by the womb, not torn from it. This blood was a language. A remembrance. A direct link to the divine.

We have forgotten menstrual rituals. But we are remembering.

Why Reconnect With Your Cycle

When a woman reconnects with her menstrual cycle, something shifts. She stops outsourcing her worth. She stops viewing herself as broken. She begins to understand that her body is not separate from her spirit.

Your womb is a portal. Your blood is a prayer. Your cycle is a compass.

To reclaim this is to reclaim a part of your soul that has been silenced for centuries.

How to Collect Your Sacred Blood for Menstrual Rituals

Let’s talk practically.

If you’re using disposable pads or tampons, you’re absorbing and throwing away something sacred. Switch to a menstrual cup. It allows you to collect your blood gently and safely.

You can store it in a glass jar in the fridge for up to 2 days if you’re doing menstrual rituals over time. But even more simply, you can mix it with rose water immediately after collecting.

This isn’t waste. It’s creation.

Menstrual Ritual for Love and Attraction

This is one of my favorite ways to honor my cycle:

What You’ll Need:

• A candle: pink (love), red (desire), or white (clarity)
• A few drops of your menstrual blood (collected using a menstrual cup)
• Rose water (or pure spring water)
• A spray bottle
• Mary Magdalene oil, or another sensual oil like rose, jasmine, or ylang ylang
• Dried rose petals (optional, for beauty and amplification)
• A small piece of paper and pen for your invocation
• A bowl large enough to hold your candleholder

🔥 The Ritual Steps

1. Prepare Your Space

Set the tone. Light a candle. Play soft, sacred music. Anoint your body if it feels right. This is a return to yourself—not just to ritual, but to your body and your presence.

2. Write Your Invocation

Write an invocation straight from your heart on a small piece of paper. Speak your desire not just in terms of what you want—but why you’re ready to receive it.

Example:

“I am a vessel of sacred love. I call in what honors my softness, my strength, and my truth.”

Let your creativity guide you. There are no rules—only resonance.

3. Anoint the Candle

With reverence, place a drop or two of your menstrual blood on the candle. As you do, speak to the candle. Bless it. Remember—this isn’t just a substance. This is a source of life, a carrier of creative energy, sacred blood.

Follow with anointing the candle using your sensual oil. You are layering your intention and your essence.

4. Create the Bowl of Blessing

Fill your bowl with rose water. Gently place your invocation paper into the water. Position your candle (in a holder) in the bowl, on top of the paper.

Surround the candle with rose petals and add a few drops of your chosen oil. Light the candle with deep presence. As it burns, let your heart hold the intention.

This is not just a candle burning—this is activation. You are charging the water with your blood, your words, your memory, your womb wisdom.

5. Bottle the Blend

Once the candle has completely burned and cooled, remove the holder and the paper. Pour the now-charged rose water into your spray bottle.

6. Use the Spray as a Daily Anointing

This is your sacred elixir. Use it after you shower—spray it on your neck, heart, womb, and even your hair. Mist your bed, your altar, your pillow. Let it become part of your energetic field.

You’re not just wearing a scent. You’re wearing yourself.

7. Remember Who You Are

Every time you use this spray, speak aloud:

“I am love. I am attraction. I have given birth to civilizations.”

Own it. Speak it. Feel it in your body. Say it like a woman who remembers.

Why Menstrual Rituals Works

Menstrual Rituals isn’t about forcing an outcome. It’s about becoming the outcome.

When your blood meets rose, water, and intention, you’re not just doing a ritual—

You are the ritual.

This is the kind of embodiment that doesn’t need to beg or prove.

It draws in what is real, what is ready, and what is true—

Not because you chased it,

But because you became the woman it was meant to find.

Final Words

I promise you, when you do this, you will become a mystery. A woman who knows. A walking spell. You won’t need to chase, beg, or prove. Your energy will speak first.

Men will be drawn to you. Some may chase you without understanding why. But only those aligned with your frequency will be able to meet you there.

This is sacred power. Don’t use it to manipulate. Use it to remember.

Do this once a month. Make it your ceremony. Become the altar.

With love,

Jewels

Find more rituals and sacred teachings at: hisdivinefeminine.com

Recommendations:

If this awakened something in you, I invite you to go deeper—watch my YouTube video Menstrual Blood Ritual for Love & Attraction, where I guide you through a sacred practice to reclaim your cycle as a source of power, not shame. This isn’t about spells—it’s about remembrance. And if you’re feeling the call to rise in quiet strength, you’ll also love reading When Sovereignty Meets Devotion: A New Woman Is Born—a soul reflection on what it truly means to embody your power with softness, with truth, and without apology.